I'm sorry I should have made that more clear. 18 months ago, I found out that H and OW made their EA go to PA. That is when I kicked him out of the house. He was in process of taking out all the equity in our home so I filed for divorce 3 days after that to save my financial status. (our assets were than frozen) Prior to that time he had been spending like crazy anyway.
My ex treated me like I was doing him so wrong. He called me money hungry, etc... They get terrible during this process. I did not even recognize my ex.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
