I think that we ALL hope that they will snap out of it and we will not have to go through the D. Unfortantely, some take way too long and some dont at all. One of my close friends was telling me about her brother who threw away his M of 16 years for a younger woman. The OW got pregnant so they married right away. Three years later, he hates his life, cant trust his new W and feels sick that he left in the first place. So maybe they dont come back, but sometimes the greener grass they went to is really a patch of weeds. Your doing great and hold strong.
BTW, I'm from St. Louis as well. What part?
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008