Divorce Remedy page 204 - 15 is relevant here wdid. \:\)

Particularly on page 212 sections "Expect Ups and Downs" and "Be Patient"

MWD points out that the path back from infidelity must move at the pace of the betrayed spouse. Expect ups and downs, and offer both of yourselves as much patience as you can through this transitional period. Your spouse will heal, its your job to help him get there.

I know things seem difficult but believe me your situation is one of the better ones on this forum. \:\)

You have a family, a brilliantly committed husband, and a home that is now unified again that you can build on for your future. For many of us this is just a hope, for you this part is already a reality. \:\)