I swear, I would be very tempted to say "JA, since you are always phoning the boys, dropping by and checking up on them, it would be to your benefit to move back home so that you can oversee their day-to-day care. I bet he would stop the crap in a heartbeat.
Or maybe he would say yes. Why? Because then he won't have to give you child support, your spousal support will be based on what he would need to pay you based on a job you can get. Then he waits a year and divorces on the grounds of abandonment.
MrsH,
Just live your life, take care of your business and children the best you can and STOP giving this man so much power over your life. You are on the right track finding a new attorney. Just go with it.
