Thanks you all you are all right i have to get off of my frustration. It is so very tough becuase for me if I am being intimate with my partner it make every other part of my relationship better. It makes me so much more easy to get along with and just more mellow. I dont know why but I think it is because I feel loved by my partner. Really after intimacy Im just about willing to do anything for my W. Anyway I am doing the act as if I dont care and see where that gets me.

Lee