How do you do it? At least I did not have to see what he was doing, I thought he was moving out because he was so lost and wanted to find himself. He had been gone 2 months before he admitted to OW. I would go crazy living with my H acting as if A were fine to flaunt in my face. I cant believe you are so strong. I went to a website called fortysixty.org. They talk alot about men in MLC and how the woman reacted to it. One of the women there said that as soon as she found out about OW, she started packing everythng that was her H. As much as she did not want him to leave, she packed him up so that he could see that she was NOT ok with this behavior. Told him that this was the home that they built and if he wanted to build with someone else he needed to leave ASAP. She said it gave her a since of control for her future and helped to protect her heart so that she did not have to see it all the time. Eight months later her H came running home.
I dont know if that is good advice or not since I am so new to this, but I can not imagine allowing my H to remain at home while in an A. I could be totally wrong though. Keep your chin up. As they say "This too will pass".
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
