I Don't get it!!!

[rjd5974]

I've been saying all along that you oughtta pull a 180 of some kind on the intamacy thing. It does seem like you're heading into cheeseless tunnel territory on a lot of this. Watch out that going down the cheeseless tunnels regarding the intamacy issue isn't leading you down cheeseless tunnels with other aspects of the R as well so you don't find yourself in the same world of trouble you were in before.

I know intamacy is important and I know it's probably a big part of your LL, but something isn't working and you seem to get more frustrated by it rather than looking for creative solutions. Have you read SSM yet? If not you should give it a read. Maybe now isn't the time to let your W read it but at least it might help you understand where she's coming from.

Anyways, I think the 180 of laying off and acting like you don't care about it is a great experiment to try. Remember, pressure didn't get your W back to you, and pressure won't get her to be intimate with you either.