Besides, if they are suppose to be home in bed at that time, then why is he calling? Sounds to me like he's checking up on you and is using the boys as an excuse
Exactly!
So no 2x4's please...
This morning I had S7 call his father back.
I went in the other room and picked up the other phone to listen in.
S7 seems very down lately and I wanted to know if JA was telling him anything.
JA asks S7 a lot of questions like "where were you last night? Coming home after 9:30pm is kind of late, don't you think? Don't you think you should be home sleeping? What did you do at your cousin's house? Did you have fun? Did you play outside? Why not? Did s3 have fun? What did you do there? What are you going to do today? Is S3 awake? Is Mommy awake? Did you eat breakfast?"
Then he also told him that he misses them and can't wait to see them about 10 times.
He also said to S7 "I'm trying to make it where I am able to see you boys on Monday as well as on Wednesdays. This way I get to see you more and we have more boys only days."
Then he also says, "Maybe I will come up tomorrow (Monday) and see you but you can't tell anyone. It's a secret. I'll just make pretend I was in the neighborhood and dropped in to see you but make sure you don't tell anyone. Maybe I will do it on Tuesday too."
I don't remember what else was said at the moment.
When I went back downstairs and S7 was getting off the phone I said to him "what day is your Dad planning on seeing you this week?"
S7 said "Ummmmm......I don't know, Wednesday I guess."
I could tell S7 was lying for JA.
I dropped the subject.
I am not happy that JA is having s7 lie for him. This isn't right.
I sure hope he doesn't get awarded Monday nights too. Especially during the school year it doesn't give S7 any other free night if he sees him on Monday because he has religion classes on Tuesday, he sees his father on Wednesdays and has art class on Thursday.
