lodo I am coming to the same realization with my H. He isn't going to realize what he has lost until it is gone. I know the man I married was the one for me and I will love him in some way for the rest of my life. Not saying that I am going to love the man he has became but my wonderful memories of the one I walked down the aisle to. That is the man I will always love at least a small part. But that doesn't mean that I will be willing to take him back at the drop of a pin whenever he finally realizes what a huge mistake he has made. It is so sad for us that we have to lose what we love, but we just have to work through it and hope that there is something better on the other side of it.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
