And you're right Pup. She told me when she finally revealed the STD that she knew she had something, but didn't really know what it was because she just kind of ignored it. Do I believe her with that explaination? Yes. Does it show an avoidance of conflict or a tendency to avoid difficult situations in life? Yes again and recovering from this affair is exactly the type of thing that I feel like WW may just think it's easier to chuck it all than go through the difficult process to repair.
And that's what scares me. That she would rather start over than go through what it will take to make it work. Hence her comment a couple months ago "you're going to just have to get over it".
Hope4us
Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.