Crying is ok. Its a nice release at times. PMS does it to me every month.
I also thought I was a very good wife as well. But I see now that I did what *I* thought was things a good wife did, and glossed over what H actually needed. I spread myself too thin, trying to make others happy, but ended up shorting everyone, including myself. Have you ever read Gypsy's "bread basket" analogy? I'll try to find it for you.
You are doing great. Its normal to miss your marriage. Its such a huge part of our lives for so long.
