Well thanks for the input everyone. I was driving to work today and had a thought on this. The whole intimacy issues I think are her way of being incontrol. She knows that I REALLY enjoy this and that it is probably my favorite thing on the planet to do. If she can stop it or be incontol of it then she is holding the cards.
Yesterday in the argument I remeber asking her if she is not in the mood she doesnt enjoy it at all. She said no she doesnt. I remeber back a little while her telling me the exact opposite. That when she is not in the mood but I can get her going by what ever she really enjoys it. I think the above statement is a way of keeping control and safe. She has something to hang over my head.
So here is the plan of action. Do a 180 for me I need to act as if I dont want it or need it. Be as happy as possible when Im around her. What I think that will do is allow her to open up more and become more sopntanous(sp).
Here is the thing Im going to ask you women is wanting to make love at least 3 times a week to much? I personally think that is pretty fare. Let me know what you think.
