Lee,

The thing with this rollercoaster is, you are blind on it, you can't see the bumps and dips ahead.

Whatever you decide, don't make a decision while you are angry. Give yourself some time before you make such an important decision to your life.

Is there something you are doing differently now that you weren't doing a few months ago when things were turing around?

Is the staying out late her way of feeling some control over her life?

Take a few days and stop thinking about the R (as much as possible) and go back to doing the things that make you feel good--make you happy.

Jackie