I think your responses were good ones. This is where time and patience come into play. Plant the seeds and see if they grow, and you know they don't grow overnight. I think it's positive th she thought of you and called to tell you her sadness. It's a heck of lot better than her just continuing to walk away w/ no look back.
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now