I'm so happy to see you on the board this morning. Thank you so much for your support and help on my thread!!! I am sorry this is going to be really fast b/c I am still packing to get ready for this festival and I am not ready... but I am so excited you are trying something different! I wa sthinking about your situation the past couple days and wanting to post to you that it would be good to try a new tactic. I am totally with One Day. Don't forget that getting rid of the tension is MAJOR progress, even if it might just feel neutral or something right now. I wish I had more time to post but please just know that I am thinking of you and pulling for you!!! Let us know how he responds to the text!! And if there is anything we should scheme up for the ahem ahem *bathroom renovation* ...!!!