I Don't get it!!!

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Hi Lee ~
That sounds really frustrating! I agree with Jethro that maybe your W is still working through some things, and needs a bit more time. I don't think that what you said was controlling at all and agree thatit is just courteous (sp?) to let someone know you're OK if you're going to be out. Maybe lay low so to speak and see what happens. Seems like ups and downs in their behavior is pretty common too. This doesn't make it any easier though. Could you rethink things at this new stage and set some goals? This helps keep me focused. Just a few thoughts. Hang in there. You're doing great ~