Quote: Then she says are you going to be controlling again?
Just want to tell you I've had the exact same accusations. I think it's more of a defense mechanism our Ses use because they know we don't agree with their decisions...and because we don't agree we are "controlling." My W during her WA period used this one on me repeatedly because I would challenge her immature actions.
My guess is that your W is still trying to work things out. I know after finding about my W's A that she wanted to still go out, but didn't out of respect for how we were trying to work things out. I suspect had I demanded the same thing a couple months sooner, she would still go out as she wished and claim I was controlling. Just recently my W admitted that she was acting like a spoiled brat during that time...very self-centered. Your W seems to still be working through this stuff, so just give it some more time.
