Mrs. H, I'm glad you went out and had a good time. You need this every now and then. It's good that you left JA and the situation at home for a change too. Your boys were well taken care of and I bet they enjoyed their time w/their uncle.
Now, about that phone call, it's a control factor that he's using by calling at that time of night. Besides, if they are suppose to be home in bed at that time, then why is he calling? Sounds to me like he's checking up on you and is using the boys as an excuse. Check it off your list and continue moving forward. He better get use to you having a life and find something better to do w/his time when the boys aren't w/him. Let him sit in the dark and worry for a change.
Enjoy your Sunday!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.