Jeannine,

That is the thing her being out doesn't bother me that much it still does a little but, the thing that bothers me the most is that bam I say something about her being out and all of a sudden im controlling again. WTF. It is the first time I have said anything about it in almost 4 months. I didnt say anything about her coming in any earlier just that she let me know where she was so that I dont worry. I think its just common courtesy(sp). Im not out partying after work because I have to be home so that she can go to work. How would she like it if I just didnt show up or let her know what was going on. It does feel like a step backwards. I just don't get the attitude.

The other thing is she says she wants another child but she will have to be home if she expects to have another one. I don't think I can put up with having 3 childern:).

Lee