I think W's reaction could have had something to do with the way I revealed the surprise. I said to her "Guess what, I did something really stupid, silly, crazy (can't remember the exact word) last night. Well the look on W's face was one I recognised, it was the "Oh, sh** I've been busted look". I then quickly revealed the surprise, hoping to get a positive reaction, that"s when she had the rant.
However my instincts tell me there's something going on in the background, (may be she's phoned or txted someone she shouldn't have) I've busted W enough times to know that look and there's just a feeling I get, but I'm not gonna let it stress me or anything like that, I'll just mentally file it away under unproven.
Anyway W is on board with the program now and she is happily talking about our trip to Barcelona, and the excitement she gets waking up on the on the day of the trip. So all is ok there.
FG, Sandi you've both been with me since day one. We've all got work to do here and our paths will cross, and occasionally we'll cross wires, but no malice is intended. We've all got our hearts in the right place and each others best interest at heart so I hope it is still all love between us.