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-----------------------------------------------------------So right now my game plan has changed. What I am doing now is Im will not talk about it expect it or anything like that. When we are in bed together I will not do anything that can be shown as wanting to make love so on and so forth. This is a 180 for me so I will see if it works to get me to my goals.
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hey lee it's been awhile.....

just a few things that i've seen here. Your quote above is a really good idea, but then you change that to surprising her w/a hotel overnighter. Lee, The problem that i see is that your W may view a surprise overnighter as pressure to have sex and that may backfire. I think getting away is a great idea, but you may want to discuss this w/her before you spring it on her! I think the 180 still may work for you, just need patience here lee....