There has been a lot of good feedback over there....good people with good advice.
I still stick with the no other man theory. My mind is at ease with that. If she has been with another man the last two months, she has been sneaking out after we fall asleep and coming back before I wake up. Out of the last 60 days, we have been apart maybe 2 or 3.
The MLC thought has crossed my mind sometimes. I see little things that may point to that, but I do believe it is more what she has endured with me all these years.
The partying is something we both have enjoyed and was at one time a big part of our lives. Yes, as adults, you need to calm down a little, but I pretty much cut out the fun stuff completely..we are both probably making up for lost time right now, but I think we both know it can't last forever. We may be acting like teenagers, but we both know we are not.
She is not a flirt and does not dress overly sexy. She is a friendly outgoing, very social woman, who never got a chance to be herself.
If you do have the time please read my story and the posts that follow. I would welcome your input.
I was falling asleep here at the computer when I saw your post and just do not have the energy right now to comment more on your post....I'm sorry.
