That is what is bothering me, about all of this is I think her love tank is being filled. She will sit and flirt with me, and do those things that say yes I would like to make love. Then about an hour before bed I start hearing the same things. Im so tired, my stomach is not feeling well so on so forth. Basically I think they are hints dont try anything buddy. I will bet that my resentment and such is showing through on this one. Im trying so hard to act as if and I dont think im doing to well:). So right now my game plan has changed. What I am doing now is Im will not talk about it expect it or anything like that. When we are in bed together I will not do anything that can be shown as wanting to make love so on and so forth. This is a 180 for me so I will see if it works to get me to my goals.

Yes right now I do use this board to vent it is a great place becuase I think If I said those things to my W that she would freak. Maybe that is the next step if this doesnt work.

Hope you all had a good 4th catch you all later.

Lee