Help! New to this...still hoping for R

[Rusty]

What do you do about the sadness that can be overwhelming, particuarly when you H has the kids for the weekend and you are alone. I miss my kids and don't think it is fair that, just because H has decided that he doesn't want to be with us, that we should have to alter all of our lives to accommodate his selfishness. I get so mad that I miss them and can't be with them. I try to take the time to do things with friends,etc., but I still have to come home to them not being there. How do you deal with that loneliness?