Hi Lee~ Catching up with you. It is tough when things move forward so slowlee, not to want so much more. (I've gotten a little taste of this myself lately , and it takes soooo much patience.) You have come so far, though. The fact that your W is being more physically affectionate is a big thing, IMHO, although maybe in some ways being closer phisically, but not having more intimacy is tougher. Dig down deep for some more patience. Have you looked back at some of your initial goals? This seems to help sometimes seeing how far I've come. Also, could you manage to work out more? It seems to help your PMA. And I know working out at the gym isn't the same as having sex, but it has some of the same physiologic effects on the body, so maybe could help you feel better until your W is ready for more????? As you say, just my two cents . Maybe I'm just nuts! Anyway, thinking of you and your family ~ Hang in there ~
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, and it takes soooo much patience.) You have come so far, though. The fact that your W is being more physically affectionate is a big thing, IMHO, although maybe in some ways being closer phisically, but not having more intimacy is tougher. Dig down deep for some more patience. Have you looked back at some of your initial goals? This seems to help sometimes seeing how far I've come. Also, could you manage to work out more? It seems to help your PMA. And I know working out at the gym isn't the same as having sex, but it has some of the same physiologic effects on the body, so maybe could help you feel better until your W is ready for more????? As you say, just my two cents 
. Maybe I'm just nuts! Anyway, thinking of you and your family ~ Hang in there ~
