I believe you became the competition (in her mind) when they met, and she found out that he was still married. I don't know if your xh gave the same story or not, but Dick told Jane he was separated..... but, I believe she has been learning Dick hasn't told her the truth since the beginning, however, I believe her denial is as thick as mine once was, or maybe even thicker. Jane has given up EVERYTHING for Dick, her children, her family, her friends, her home, her jobs, everything, so she will cling as long as he is alive.... he he he he.
Complimentary, complimentary.... what do you mean? Nobody has to say anything complimentary, for the twinkies of the world to believe they are in competition... the only self esteem/self worth they have, comes from comparing themselves to everyone and anyone, along with judging others, basically, it's nonexistant. They are often so needy they believe they need a man in their lives to give them a feeling of being someone. Poor souls.
Besides, I know how awesome, intelligent, and beautiful you are, and I haven't even met you.... so I know glancing across your place of business, she must see your inner glow and beauty!
You take care, and have a wonderful weekend.
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Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you.........
