Hope4us struggle, part 4

[Hope4us]

Well Kat, it's been wierd. Friday she was fine in the morning and went shopping. I asked her if she was going to be home in time to take DS19 and his friend to lunch with me. She said if she was home she would, but don't wait for her if she's not home. She gets home about 3 hours later and is pissy. What woman goes shopping and spends a couple hundred on new clothes and comes home pissy? I asked her what she got and she said "clothes". I told her I realized that, but what clothes? "Clothes". Ok, I can tell that convo was going nowhere so I let it drop. About 20 minutes later she grabs her purse and leaves without saying a word.

DS19 and friend get to our house and I take them out to a late lunch. The "friend" is a girl, but not his GF. But boy oh boy is she interested in him. I wanted to pull him aside and tell him about emotional needs etc, but I didn't. His GF goes to a different school and this friend goes to his school and they spend a lot of time together. Uh oh. Anyway, we get home from lunch and WW is home. I walked in and said, "I think....." and WW says "I don't want to hear it". I said "do you know what I was going to say"? She says "what"? So I told her I thought the friend has a crush on DS19 and she said she figured that's what I was going to say. So why would she say "I don't want to hear it" when I was going to tell her the friend has a crush on DS19? Make her feel guilty?

Night ended with the boys and I watching the second National Treasure movie with WW upstairs in the bedroom watching T.V. I played a golf tourney today and was being picked up at 4 am so I went upstairs and told WW to just sleep in bed and I would take the couch since I had to get up so early. She seemed pleased by that.

Played golf and got home at about 5:00. DS19, WW and I went out shopping for stuff for the apartment DS19 is moving into in a couple weeks when the school year ends. Had a good time. Picked up pizza on the way home. When we got home, WW goes inside and DS19 and I carried the stuff in. WW says "I DIDN'T KNOW WE WERE BRINGING THE STUFF IN". I asked her why we would leave it in the car? She said "I don't know". I said "I guess I didn't think it made sense to take the stuff back to school tomorrow when he goes back and then turn around and move it to the apartment in two weeks". She starts slamming stuff around, grabs some pizza and goes to the bedroom to eat it. WTF?

But....10 minutes later she comes down to smoke and is all friendly and talkative about our sprinkler system starting on it's own today and the garage door not working, and then working without anyone doing anything. I told her I thought maybe the storms we had go through last night probably just messed them up some but they are ok now. WTF again?

Can anyone say menapause? MLC? I've never seen mood swings happen so quickly in all my life.

But to answer your question Kat, yes, having a wonderful weekend. Great seeing DS19 and had a blast golfing today. And the beer cart girl was HOT, HOT, HOT. That did wonders for my PMA but not for my golf game. I just had to buy a beer everytime she came by so by the 12th hole I wasn't playing my best, but boy was it worth it!