Lee, It sounds a little like your W and you kinda got caught up in the daily routine and for your W it became a rut she wanted to break out of. Nothing wrong with that. Every one needs to do a fun activity every now and again. How bout once a week make a suggestion to do something out of the ordinary. Try to be spontaneous and surprise her with it. Doesn't have to be something spectacular ... a walk in the park ... feeding the birds ... watching the sunset. Going to a carnival or flea market. Just a way to enjoy spending some time together that's a little different from the normal routine.
