Sounds like you are handle things pretty well considering what is going on. Can I ask what have the coaches suggested for you to do to help the situation. I have often thought of spending the money for it but right now finances are pretty tight.
I will say that the first couple of weeks after my H moved out I was so very angry with him. The void he left in my family's life has horrible. But then something odd happened. I actually started to enjoy having the "me" time. I got to decide what I wanted to do and when I wanted to do it. I have to say having lots af great friends who would come over and talk with me help ALOT. I really thought things where moving down the right path until he diclosed his A to me. Now I am slowly picking myself up from that and know that one day I will be ok again.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008