I will tell you that at first I thought that her LL was Quality time. She really seems to like that. With the baby thing I really think that is very far down the road. My W is a procrastonator and is very slow about doing anything. Heck we have had a GYM membership for a month now and she has used it once. So I would think a baby would be a lot longer than that. The wierd thing now is her saying that I am needy for these things is she might be right but you know what I realize that if we cant figure this out. That down the road I will be ok. I have come to terms with things. Im hoping that she will come around.

Ellie, I would like to talk to her about the 5 LL book but right now I dont think she would be receptive to it. She is of the opnion that how could that help. I am going to keep that option open though.

Lee