How far/how much financial damage do you allow them to experience before you intervene?
W is out of town and some financial stuff is going down that I could stop (she is unaware). If I don't take action the kids will be hurt too.
That's the kind of "double bind" I have found myself in every time natural consequences occur from which many would say (and have) I should not rescue her from.
"When elephants battle the grass suffers" African proverb
"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12 Bomb and OM 12/15/06 Separated 01/02/07 Divorced 05/13/08 X married OM(OMH) 08/2009 Married 06/09/13
