Well, this is probably one of the first times in a long time that I've had the opportunity to post on the weekend. I hope everyone is having a good one. We're having a nice, sunny weekend. It's great.
H came home from work last night, had pizza with us & the two of us watched a movie. H had to work today and then said he was going golfing with a bunch of guys from work. H got up early, left to work out and then was just going to work.
D4 and I had a really great day! I slept in...well, just laid around (felt great!) with D4 watching her tv shows in my room. I signed my apartment lease today. I hope D4 wasn't paying much attention, as the woman at the apartment said, what do you think of your new home honey? After that, she and I just shopped. Probably shouldn't have, but got a bunch of stuff we both needed (sandals, summer clothes....etc.). It was fun. We also went out for lunch & sat outside. Just a fun day!!
I told a friend of mine the other day that I got my apartment. She asked how it felt. I started crying. I said, Well, it feels odd. It's good because now I don't have to worry about where I'm going. But, I know I'm going without my H. She said that she pictures us splitting and being one of those couples that comes back together at some point in time.....be it a year from now or 10 years from now. She said she knows that it's the best thing for D4 and I right now, but that maybe this split will make H realize what he's lost. I told her that it will depend on what I want then, not him.
Have a good weekend!
SueS
ME: 42, H: 42, D6 Together: 18 yrs. Married: 15 yrs. Attended Retrouvaille - December 2009 Status: Working on it day by day