I've been reading about 'hitting rock bottom'. When something bad happens, or things don't go well with WAH, MIL says 'maybe this is his rock bottom'. (She is something like 22 years sober and an AA sponser...so she always tells me 'one day at a time'etc)

I feel my H has hit 'Rock Bottom'....a BUNCH of times!!

So...maybe rock bottom isn't like a sudden flash of lightning...but, a period of time??

It would help to know....maybe my H is in a bad place and not just a complete selfish, irresponsible, immature.........good look guy.

Sophie

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Me-50
H-38
Married 15 years 8/7/08
D8
S10
S13
H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer
H moved out 4/06

7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly
10/30/08 H signed D papers
11/10/08 D papers filed
11/13/08 D papers served at home