Frank, I'm glad to know that allowing myself to get angry is ok. I've been working so hard not to be angry through this whole thing.
RTL
I HAD to get angry to get through this. That doesn't mean express your anger to W, it means let yourself feel the anger, loss, betrayal.
You're in love with the person she WAS, or at least the idealized version of that person. This is the person she IS right now. Not very attractive, is it?
