100 times worse. It was the worst part of the journey for me. My ex was so hostile, and competitive. He just wanted to "win". He sooned realized that there are no winners in a divorce.
He would use delay tactics and then blame the delay on me. He would try constantly to justify his relationship with OW to my kids. He constantly threatened me about what he would be taking out of the house. I just had to set clear boundaries and stand my ground.
I made it through. I think he has forgotten most of what he put me through.
My saving grace at this 18 month mark is that he is getting more "normal", not as nasty.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
