Even tho I do not want the X back. We are in the same boat.
The thought of these women with our children. Makes me sick.
I have to dig down deep, when I know it is X's weekend, and I tell my kids.
Ok. Listen to papi. Be good, and say your pleases and thank yous.
If Susan (ick) gives you anything, or if you are at her home, make sure you say thank you. Make sure you clean up after yourselves, but most of all have fun.
I say it with a smile and hug them
I walk them outside, I give their weekend bag to the X , and walk in and cry for about 2 minutes.
I used to cry longer, it is less now.
I don't know when or if I will ever be used to it.
I know the thought of your baby making sand castles with her makes you want to stick a pen in the OW's eye.
I know sugar. I think that we should try (gulp) to be thankful(gulp)
That at least these beyotches are being cordial and nice to our children.
I would rather have whoremonger be nice to my M&M, then hear some crazy story of her being mean or rude to them. I will be in jail.
So, even tho this hurts so much. We need to see something postivie in it mami. We need to start letting go of some of the hurt and anger, b/c these situations, are out of our control
ICK
I hate even saying all that, b/c i know how hard it is. It does not happen over night. YOu are going to be ok Sugar. Beautiful peeps like you win out in the long run.
Live Simply Love Generously Care Deeply Speak Kindly Leave the rest to God
