Hey, Lee ~

That's great! I think the ILY's are a big baby step for sure. IMHO it shows your W is feeling more comfortable expressing herself and opening up to you - this is good. You are doing a terrific job "doing something different" w/regard to the physical stuff. Back a few posts ago, you talked about changing your response to her (you came here and vented and then were able to be more loving w/her) and the wonderful affect it had. You know what to do, and are doing a great job with the patience and showing her you love her. You are such a good example and have come so far. Hang in there ~

Thank you for posting on my thread - you made me laugh Thinking of you ~

Mockers2 "Somehow we survive, and tenderness frustrated does not wither." Dennis Brutus, South African poet "That which does not kill us makes us stronger." Friedrich Nietzsche