Today is my 18 month mark..... never thought I would make it.

How have things changed?
Ex appears much less angry and more depressed/withdrawn.
I do not pursue
His interactions with the kids is more positive and loving
I have GAL
I have more compassion for him
I have told him I have forgiven him and OW
He seems to miss the family life

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11