I had decided maybe I shouldn't post here any more, but since I feel like I adopted you as one of my own.....it's hard not to. I like your idea for the trip, but I don't think you should bring up R talk. It will kill the entire trip for you and her. If you can just act as if this is a new beginning.....like a honeymoon, that would be better than treating it like a counseling session. If your W loves surprises.....it will be wonderful, on the other hand.....if she is the type that likes to be prepared,etc. you may just want to go ahead and show her the bookings you have made for the trip. I learned that for some people part of the fun is in the "planning" and looking forward to the trip. But, you know her best and how she would receive the news the best. Just don't wait too long before springing the news on her.
Love ya, Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
