Wish I could read her mind>>>>

[Forrest Gump]

Hmm..

Bwrol has me thinking.. I am not sure if thats good or bad..

Anyway..

"Again I'll just say that to me, your heart is in the exact right place at this moment in time. Honestly."

I agree to a point. I think that your "heart" wanders because you just don't know what else to do. You become something that tries to "fix" the situation. I think even the WAS Syndrome is to be looked at the same way. They both tried. They both failed. One wants to try and stay together.. the other wants to create a new life. Either way they are fixing something within themselves.. the best way they know how. I am sure their hearts are still in it.. their focus has just changed dramatically.

"Once a spouse decides to leave, all bets are off. When they have set their minds to be done with the marriage, our ability to influence them directly is severely curtailed. At that point I firmly believe that we have one last shot"

Well lets not sugar coat this.. but she has said she was going to leave 3 times now. T has not really indicated that she ever has.. or I missed it. So that says to me 1 of 2 things.. either she is really trying to find herself.. or she dosen't follow thru on things. I tend to lean towards she is looking for herself. So that tells me I am missing something that she has been doing. While this is a odd situation T is in.. there are quite a few holes or gaps. Maybe she is perfect..

"This woman loved you once. She can be moved to love you again. You have an advantage - she has already fallen in love with you once, married you, had children with you. You are her history.

Show her what she fell in love with again. BECOME that man again, and never change from that, and I think your outlook is good."

That I will agree with. I say it a little different.. but the thought is exactly the same.

Again.. this is just my thoughts but I am really looking at the gaps.. or what she did. When someone stands up and says I did it all.. it was all me.. my ears tingle a bit.