I am focusing on the business side completely, but oh those revenge fantasies are very, very sweet.
My L said to me several months ago "and you still want to try and patch things up w/ this woman?" At the time, I still thought there was a shot, but I'm pretty unsure of that now.
I'm taking his advice and letting him lead this thing from here to the end. The only way I can ever see my W and I reconciling is after our D is final. Then she'll have reality in her face. The problem for her in this scenario is I really don't see my door staying open very much longer b/c it is unfortunately almost completely shut now.
Have a good finish to your year. Summer is here for me and just around the corner for you, my friend.