Why doesn't my H try, in any way shape or form, to make sure he has time with his kids?
If he is so sure a divorce is the right thing....then, wouldn't he make darn sure he had as much of his kids as possible?
It seems he stays away as a favor to us. ??
If he's trying to hurt us by staying away, by disappearing...he just isn't. He is making it easier on us emotionally. Our days and weeks go by much smoother without his issues and actions to deal with.
What's up with all this?
Sophie
~~ Me-50 H-38 Married 15 years 8/7/08 D8 S10 S13 H affair 11/04-7/04 maybe longer H moved out 4/06
7/30/08- present: Reconnecting w/kids,friendly 10/30/08 H signed D papers 11/10/08 D papers filed 11/13/08 D papers served at home
