I'm so lucky you wandered by my thread. I really am. You and Phoenixdeaux have both showed up lately w/ some wonderful advice and I thank you very much.
Hey, first of all, I was being a bit tongue-in-cheek by saying it was my fault. I guess, sarcastically, I was blaming myself for having high expectations on my W's behavior. I know I didn't deserve this, but I do think you are right that I have overlooked some of my W's bad traits until now.
Again, I just expected her to be on board w/ me 100%. That is where it is my fault, b/c I assumed we were partners to the end. Shame on me for that.
I'll continue to work on going dark and completely detaching. I know I need to do it more intensly than I have been up to now. Thanks for your encouragement and I can only hope that karma will rear its head and bite my W in the rear and hard.
You are completely right that once that does occur, it will be totally up to me to decide whether or not I want to continue to deal w/ this woman.
