He left then Cheated ---Now What???

[No Longer BH]

Sara,

Thank you for letting me see that there is no rush. Your right, if I'm not ready then I'm not ready. I cant let my family push me into something that I might regret later on, even though they are doing it out of care for me. People do not understand what this feels like unless they are/have lived it. I will focus on healing my wounds first then see where I am at.

Lin,

Thank you for giving me hope. On a site where much of what we see is pain and bad endings, its nice to actually get a post from someone who made it through the storm. Did you H have an OW? If he did, did he claim to be in love with her? I have so many questions but understand that sometimes there are no answers for the craziness of it all.