Morning Purr,

Yes, once W decided she wanted a D it had to happen. She is headstrong like that. My mother is the same way. That's why they don't get along;

Opposites attract

Likes collide

If counselor was right (he said he was sure she was gong to divorce me and believed she would marry me again) she will now remarry me. The only questions are how long will it take and will I still be waiting.

As far as apparent movement, if I could find the discipline to go dark/no contact it might speed things along. It's problematic because we have kids/incomplete financial separation and I'm a wimp (I'm still in love with her).

This weekend? I wimped out on going out last night. Have a tentative date to lay out at the pool with same female this afternoon (that will be sheer torture for me). Betwen now and then I have errands to run, going to the gym and there's a gun show in town (no, I'm not one of those angry people who turns to religion or guns).

How is your sitch coming, Purr?

"The Agony and the Ecstacy" (Anyone know what's wrong with that diet button?)


"Fear is the mind-killer" Muad'Dib
Me 53, XW 44, DD 14, DS 12
Bomb and OM 12/15/06
Separated 01/02/07
Divorced 05/13/08
X married OM(OMH) 08/2009
Married 06/09/13