I just wanted to chip in my two cents worth, which is pretty much the same as everybody else! Patience is a valuable asset. So go slowly, and give her the time and space she needs. And look at your goals. It's hard to refrain from more of the same behavior, we do that so well, but as you move to do something different, you can, as it's said, "monitor" those results. Most of all, and this is the best part: you're in there doing what it takes. Yes, it's not easy, but you know the worth of your efforts. She's inter-acting with you, and that's good! Keep building on that! DoRight