I disagree...I think if it is MLC it gives us a lot more insight into the insane actions of our H's...or W's as the case may be...this helped me to understand what was happening and to realize that there was hope of him comming out of it...
I can say it was a long road...lots of insane actions...lots of consequences we are still dealing with...but we have been reconciling for the past 2 years after being apart for 2 years...we are on solid ground and living happily together...
Our story is long, sad, insane, and totally by the book MLC...I always believe that was a label for an excuse...I now know differently...the depression that develops in all of this is very well disguised by OW, spending money, acting crazy, foolish, and young...the sad part is that they really don't see it that way...and when they do...it is a hard hit for humbling!
