Ask anyone here...it took me MONTHS to get to the point where I was willing to talk to a lawyer. The night where he stayed out all night until 5am with OW and then came home and started doing his laundry. That is when I hit the breaking point and realized that I couldn't do this anymore. He was coming and going with the OW with no desire to change.


I am struggling right now in actually giving the lawyer the money to start the divorce. I am scared out of mind. I want my H to snap out of it so badly and come back to me. But I don't know if that will ever happen or if it does, I don't know how long it will take. I don't have my whole life to wait around. I need to take that plunge and start the ball rolling. But you need to do these things whenever it feels right for you. There is no use going to see a lawyer if you aren't ready. You will know when you are.

Hang in there...I know this is so hard and painful.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08