Yep take it slow...I know when my H starting his return it was hard not to want to jump back into the whole batch...but I could sense his fear...took it slow...
As for wanting to know things...even though you think you might be past that...when you are solid ground those things will come up for you...I think this is a natural course...when we feel safe we want to know...I have had most of my questions answered...a few remain even two years later...I am getting ready to put it all to rest...I figure I will know when the time is right to approach him...
Life can be wonderful again...build on a good foundation...create a bond of friendship...things will grow from there...
