Cleaning out the Cobwebs

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Just a thought, maybe your H's, spouses, are sharing their feelings, but not in a way/language you are hearing.

I want my W to be affectionate. She is, if I look, just not how I would like her to be. I want her to flirt, to touch, to tell me she is thinking of me. She calls, takes care of "things" (chores, kids, etc.), she tries, in her way. She came back, and she didn't have to.

In other words, actions can speak louder than words. If you're not hearing what you think you need to hear, maybe you have a choice: accept that you're not going to get it the way you want it and appreciate what you do get, or go for what you want and need, even if it means ending your M/R. You have to know yourself, and really know what you need and why, not just think you need.

Neither choice leads to constant joy. Both have plusses and minuses, loss and gain.